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Florida Jaguars Coach Kevin Maxen Comes Out As Gay.

Florida Jaguars Coach Kevin Maxen Comes Out As Gay.

Haha, Florida. Anti-Gay, Ron DeSantis. It’s Delicious.

Kevin Maxen has become the first male coach in major American men’s professional sports to publicly come out as gay, telling Outsports.com he decided because he didn’t want to hide who he is any longer and to possibly inspire others in similar situations.

“I don’t want to feel like I have to think about it anymore,” Maxen told Outsports in an exclusive interview. “I don’t want to feel like I have to lie about who I am seeing, or why I am living with someone else.

It wasn’t until recently – and with the immense love and support of my family, my friends, colleagues and peers, and the courage and sacrifice from my partner – that I realized I have the right and responsibility to love and be loved, and that maybe sharing this will hopefully give someone else the strength to accept their own life and take control of their own story.

I want to be vocal in support of people living how they want to live, but I also want to just live and not feel fear about how people will react.”

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Maxen is the first publicly out male coach in a major American men’s pro sports league.

Actor Richard Armitage Casually Comes Out As Gay

Actor Richard Armitage Casually Comes Out As Gay

In a recent interview with Radio Times magazine, actor Richard Armitage causally came out while discussing his new Netflix series Obsession.

Armitage has long kept quiet about the subject and avoided discussing his personal life in interviews even as rumors began to swirl about Armitage’s sexuality after Sir Ian McKellen let slip that a number of his co-stars were gay, in The Hobbit including actors who played “two of the dwarves.”

Armitage reflected on coming out to the people in his life when he was a teen and why he didn’t want to talk about it publicly for so long:

“[Coming out] happened when I was 19–to anybody who mattered–and I was always waiting for that question to punch me in the face, and it never did,” Armitage says. “I thought, ‘Are people being polite, or is it that they don’t want to know?’”

He continues: “I don’t know that I ever wanted to put myself in front of the work I was doing, anything about my family or personal life. I just thought, ‘Let the work speak for itself. If I declare who I am and my sexuality, then I’m saying it’s fixed and I don’t know that, or if I might feel something for somebody further down the line. I doubt it, but I don’t know. It’s more relaxed now. As a writer and producer, I do wonder if anybody has to be defined by who they’re in love with.”

“I love the conversation with the younger generation. I love the idea that whatever gender, sexuality, the fluidity of who you love, how you identify, is not fixed. That was always a thing: If I declare who I am and my sexuality, then I’m saying it’s fixed and I don’t know that, or if I might feel something for somebody further down the line. I doubt it, but I don’t know. It’s more relaxed now. As a writer and producer, I do wonder if anybody has to be defined by who they’re in love with.”

Welcome to the Tribe Richard!

WOOF!

Chicago White Sox Minor League Pitcher Anderson Comás Proudly Announces He Is Gay

Chicago White Sox Minor League Pitcher Anderson Comás Proudly Announces He Is Gay

Anderson Comás, a minor leaguer in the Chicago White Sox organization, proudly revealed on Sunday that he is gay.

In an Instagram post, Comás warned homophobic readers that the message would not be for them and then said he is “proudly and happily part of the LGTBQ+ community.”

After Comás’s post was published, the White Sox showed support for the decision, saying on Twitter, “We are all so proud of you, Anderson!” The team also released a statement in support of the young player.

“Anderson first shared his news with us last year,” Chris Getz, Chicago’s assistant general manager for player development, said in the statement.

“I also was happy at the reaction across the organization, which as you would expect was to support, help and congratulate a teammate. With his social media post today, we all are so proud of Anderson and that he is comfortable sharing such an important personal part of his life so openly.”

Comás only the second active player affiliated with a major league baseball team to come out in a public announcement.

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Czech Republic's Pro Soccer Player Jakub Jankto Comes Out As Gay [VIDEO]

Czech Republic’s Pro Soccer Player Jakub Jankto Comes Out As Gay [VIDEO]

On January 29, 2023, Jakub Jankto, a professional soccer player for the Czech Republic national team, became one of the few active players in the sport to publicly come out as gay. Jankto made the announcement in a heartfelt Instagram post, in which he thanked his family and friends for their support and expressed hope that his coming out would inspire others to be true to themselves.

Jankto’s decision to come out is significant for several reasons. For one, it highlights the ongoing struggle for acceptance and inclusion of LGBT individuals in sports, where homophobia and discrimination remain all too common. By being open about his sexuality, Jankto is helping to challenge stereotypes and break down barriers, paving the way for others to follow in his footsteps.

Moreover, Jankto’s coming out is a reminder of the courage and resilience required to be true to oneself in a world that can be hostile to difference. In his Instagram post, Jankto acknowledged the difficulties of living in the closet, saying that “for a long time, I was afraid to tell the truth about who I am.” By sharing his story, Jankto is showing that it’s possible to overcome fear and shame and find the strength to live authentically.

Orthodox Israeli Journalist Yair Cherki Comes Out As Gay

Orthodox Israeli Journalist Yair Cherki Comes Out As Gay

‘I tremble as I write these words,’ Channel 12 religious affairs reporter writes in a Facebook post that quickly goes viral; ‘I love men and God, and this isn’t contradictory

In January 2023, Israeli journalist Yair Cherki came out as gay in a public statement. Cherki, who is Orthodox, had previously kept his sexuality private, citing concerns over potential discrimination and backlash from his community.

Cherki’s decision to come out has been met with a mix of reactions, with some expressing support and others expressing disappointment or even anger. Many have praised Cherki for his bravery in speaking out and challenging stereotypes about the Orthodox community’s views on homosexuality.

However, others have criticized Cherki for what they see as an attempt to “normalize” homosexuality within the Orthodox community, which is known for its ultra conservative and anti-LGBT views on social issues. Some have even called for Cherki to be fired from his position as a journalist, arguing that his public advocacy for LGBT rights conflicts with the values of the Orthodox community.

Overall, Cherki’s coming out is a significant moment in the ongoing conversation about LGBTQ rights and acceptance in Israel. While the country has made strides in recent years towards greater equality for LGBTQ people, there is still much work to be done, particularly within more conservative communities like the Orthodox. Cherki’s willingness to speak out and be a visible representative of the LGBTQ Orthodox community is an important step towards greater understanding and acceptance for all.

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Gay History Month – October 3: Roddy McDowell, GOP Gay Sex Scandals Ain’t Nothing New, and the Infamous Bloomie’s Tearoom

October 3rd…

1847: Hans Christian Andersen wrote to the Hereditary Grand-duke of Saxe-Weimar-Eisenach,I love you as a man can only love the noblest and best. This time I felt that you were still more ardent, more affectionate to me. Every little trait is preserved in my heart.”

1872: Bloomingdale’s department store opens in Manhattan. YES, this is gay history, just ask any gay man from New York City over 40 about the ever popular men’s room in the 1970’s and 1980’s.

Well, some places just become notorious, like the Bloomingdale’s bathroom or certain train cars during rush hour. For those spots, it’s the thrill of danger that IS the appeal. It’s like a form of exhibitionism, the idea that you might get caught.  –  posted by sexyrobot at 3:53 PM on February 17, 2015

Shopping and sex all in one place?  Who could ask for anything more? (And when they were done many a shopping queen didn’t. (Tap…tap….tap.) 

1973: Dr. Howard Brown, former New York City Health Administrator, made history when he came out of the closet in a speech in front of 600 colleagues. He later became the director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force back at a time when it actually had a “task”

1980: Conservative Republican U.S. Representative Robert Bauman was arrested for soliciting sex from a 16-year-old male prostitute.  The arrest came in the midst of Bauman’s reelection campaign, occurring after the deadline for withdrawal from the contest, and thus handing the election to Democrat Roy Dyson, who hadn’t stood a chance before Bauman’s arrest. Prior to his arrest, Bauman was a member of both the Moral Majority the American Conservative Union.   Bauman said he was suffering from alcoholism and entered himself into a court-supervised rehabilitation program, which, upon successful completion, resulted in the charges being dropped.

Bauman left politics for good and now writes books about offshore banking and the creation of tax havens. He is currently the legal counsel for Sovereign Society , a group that works at creating such tax havens. And does not support same-sex marriage

1998:  Prolific actor Roderick Andrew Anthony Jude “Roddy” McDowall passes away from lung cancer at age 70 in Studio City, CA.

McDowell made his first well-known film appearance at the age of 12, playing “Huw Morgan” in How Green Was My Valley (1941), where he met and became lifelong friends with Maureen O’Hara. The film won an Academy Award for Best Picture, and made him a household name. He starred in Lassie Come Home (1943), a film that introduced a girl who would become his lifelong friend – Elizabeth Taylor.  McDowall continued his career successfully into adulthood, a rare event for any child star  and  also became a film director, photographer and voice artist. and is probably best known today for his roles in Fright Night, The Poseidon Adventure, and as Cornelius, Caesar, and Galen in the original Planet of the Apes films and television series.

Although Roddy McDowall made no public statements about his sexual orientation during his lifetime, it was a well known fact in Hollywood that he was gay

2005: This week’s TIME cover story is titled “The Battle Over Gay Teens”. TIME’s cover story in 2005 touched on the effort to eradicate anti-gay speech in schools and to set up clubs and advocacy groups to support gay teens. But the story also underscored the ongoing tension between religion and homosexuality that still continues today.

2012: Orlando Cruz became the first out gay professional boxer when USA Today broke the news of the athlete coming out. Cruz said in a statement: “I’ve been fighting for more than 24 years and as I continue my ascendant career, I want to be true to myself. I want to try to be the best role model I can be for kids who might look into boxing as a sport and a professional career. I have and will always be a proud Puerto Rican. I have always been and always will be a proud gay man.”

Gay History – September 21: Edward II, Daughters of Bilitis Formed, Fannie Flagg and Happy Birthday Dan Savage

1327 – Edward II died. He was murdered at Berkeley Castle, Gloucestershire on 21 September 1327 by being held down and having a red-hot poker inserted inside his anus, and his screams could be heard miles away. This cruel torture was most probably devised as punishment for his presumed sexual acts with men.

1944:  Fannie Flagg (born September 21, 1944) is born. She is an American actress, comedian and author. She is best known as a semi-regular panelist on the 1973–82 versions of the game show Match Game and for the 1987 novel Fried Green Tomatoes at the Whistle Stop Cafe, which was adapted into the 1991 motion picture Fried Green Tomatoes. In the late 1970s, Flagg had a relationship with American writer, Rita Mae Brown (born November 28, 1944). Flagg also lived for eight years with former The Bold and the Beautiful actress Susan Flannery (born July 31, 1939).

1955:  Daughters of Bilitis, the first lesbian organization, is formed by four lesbian couples, including Phyllis Lyon and Del Martin.

The Daughters of Bilitis was originally formed as a social alternative to lesbian bars, which were subject to raids and police harassment. As the DOB gained members, their focus shifted to providing support to women who were afraid to come out. The DOB educated them about their rights, and about gay history. Historian Lillian Faderman declared, “Its very establishment in the midst of witch-hunts and police harassment was an act of courage, since members always had to fear that they were under attack, not because of what they did, but merely because of who they were.” The Daughters of Bilitis endured for 14 years, becoming an educational resource for lesbians, gay men, researchers and mental health professionals.

1971: Thomas Craig “T. C.” Jones the great American female impersonator passes away. T. C.”was known for his impersonations of stars such as Tallulah Bankhead, Judy Garland, Katharine Hepburn and others. He has been described as “probably the best female impersonator since vaudeville’s late famed Julian Eltinge”.   Although Jones was straight he had a huge gay following. T. C. Jones also appeared in New Faces of 1956, directed by Paul Lynde.

Jones made a number of television appearances, including portraying a homicidal transvestite with a penchant for strangling nurses in “An Unlocked Window”, an Edgar Award-winning episode of The Alfred Hitchcock Hour in 1965 and another killer transvestite in “Night of the Running Death”, a 1967 episode of The Wild Wild West. Jones appeared in a male role opposite Jayne Mansfield and Mamie Van Doren in the film Three Nuts in Search of a Bolt (1964) and played dual male/female roles as Mr. and Mrs. Ace in The Monkees’ film Head (1968)

1993: Actress Amanda Bearse comes out while co-starring on the television series Married with Children. Bearse publicly announced her lesbianism in an interview in the September 21, 1993 issue of The Advocate, where she also encouraged other gay celebrities to use their fame and position to increase gay visibility.

In the interview, Bearse expressed relief at having been outed by the tabloids. “The outing really was quite a freeing experience. . . . That one thing, that one big secret is out. For a lot of people, it was just a confirmation of what they thought about me. I mean, I look like the girl next door, but I was always kind of off-center.”

1998: “Will & Grace,” the first prime-time program to feature openly gay lead characters, premiers. While a solid hit. many find the gay stereotyping offensive.

2010:  Dan Savage (born October 7, 1964) and husband Terry Miller upload their first It Gets Better video on YouTube, to help prevent suicide among LGBT youth. Dan is an American author, media pundit, journalist, and activist for the LGBT community.

In his writing and public appearances, Savage has clashed with both social conservatives and the LGBT establishment. He has opposed Rick Santorum’s views on homosexuality and advocated for gay marriage and other LGBT causes. He has made several controversial public statements in various media, often lambasting people with whom he disagrees.

Actress Rebel Wilson Comes Out as Lesbian During PRIDE Month

Actress Rebel Wilson in a post Thursday came out during PRIDE Month and introduced the world to her girlfriend Ramona Agruma.: “I thought I was searching for a Disney Prince… but maybe what I really needed all this time was a Disney Princess #loveislove.”

The couple were spotted together in Los Angeles during Super Bowl Sunday back in February, the big game was held at SoFi Stadium. The two also went to Cabo in March with a group of friends to celebrate Rebel’s birthday.

Congrats to Rebel Wilson for her courage. If only more celebrities would come out and show the world we are everywhere and help give courage to those of us who feel afraid and all alone.

“Every gay person must come out.” – Harvey Milk

Supernatural’ Actor Misha Collins Comes Out as Bisexual

During a recent public appearance  at a Supernatural fan convention, actor Misha Collins very subtly came out as bisexual.

Via Just Jared:

“How many of you would consider yourself introverts?” Misha asked the crowd, in a video shared on Twitter. “How many extroverts? “And how many bisexuals?” At that last question, the audience started chanting and clapping before Misha added, “I’m all three.”

Welcome to the tribe Misha!

Colton Underwood ABC The Bachelor Gay

Former Bachelor Contestant Colton Underwood Comes Out As Gay.

In an interview with Good Morning America‘s Robin Roberts on Wednesday, former football start Colton Underwood — who headlined Season 23 of the ABC “reality” show The Bachelor— confirmed the longstanding rumor.

He is gay.

Underwood’s being a virgin was a plot point The Bachelor seized on. It also fueled rumors that he was gay — which he had previously denied.

Titled “Colton Underwood: In His Own Words,” the former “Bachelor” star opens up to Roberts:

“There is something that you want people to know, so can you tell us what is on your heart that you want to share?” Roberts asks Underwood in the clip.

“Yeah,” he responds as he takes a deep breath. “It’s been a journey, for sure.”

This year’s been a lot for a lot of people and it’s probably made a lot of people look at themselves in the year and figure out who they are,” he shared. “I’ve ran from myself for a long time, I’ve hated myself for a long time. I’m gay. I came to terms with that earlier this year, and the next step in all of this was sort of letting people know. … I’m the happiest and healthiest I’ve ever been in my life. That means the world to me.” Colton Underwood

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